Booty Call to Boyfriend

The booty call is a time honored tradition of no strings attached sex. Nowadays it's usually precipitated by a quick text, often when the texter is exceptionally horny or drunk and wants some loving without putting in all the hard work of dates and paying for meals and so on. This article focuses on how to shift things so you're no longer the booty call but a genuine boyfriend. You want the great gay sex but you also want to go on dates, fall in love, go on vacations, etc. It's a bit of challenge but it can be done.

An honest assessment of the man you want to become your boyfriend is the first step. Is he really worth dating? A good percentage of the time the guys that are only interested in booty calls are just dickheads that would make terrible boyfriends. Some of you probably have experience with that. The sad truth is that most of the time if the guy was really interested in being your boyfriend then it would already be the case. Either he doesn't want to date at all or he's not interested in you for anything more than gay sex. However, there are cases where he's a good guy and you just need to change things a little bit so you can date instead of being the late night booty call.

The first lesson is a simple one. If you always give your guy what he wants (that would be sex) then he's probably never going to be your boyfriend. As the old saying goes, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. It's true though. Assuming he's a good guy and not just a sex addict then he needs to be made to work a little bit for the sex. Next time he texts or calls you for a hook up tell him you're not available. In fact, tell him that you're on a date with another guy. If he's into you it will likely make him jealous and put you on the road to becoming the boyfriend.

Instead of being the passive one in the relationship and always waiting on him to make the booty call you should step up and try to schedule something. Call him and see if he wants to go to the movies or hang out, preferably during the day. Night time dates are always going to end in sex but a daytime date can simply be a social outing. The more of those you have the more he'll get to know you. Once that happens he might decide he wants to date you because you're actually a great guy and you provide something he's been missing.

The reason guys stay in the booty call zone is because they don't have the self respect to ask for more. The best way to go from booty call to boyfriend is to demand it. If he doesn't want it then move on. There are millions of gay men out there and there's no reason you shouldn't be dating one of them. Have that self respect and you'll get what you want.

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